Injuries don’t just hurt physically. They can rock us emotionally, taking away the activities we love, isolating us from our training buddies, and doing some serious damage to our self image.
This is especially true as we get older and injuries seem to pop up with increasing frequency.
When I had my first injury, I felt I had been stripped of my identity.
I found it incredibly hard to admit I wasn’t coping mentally. I became an angry frustrated person – and I pushed away loved ones who just wanted to help.
Admitting I needed help and support was one of the most challenging things in the world for me as I didn’t want to be seen as weak, but it saved me.
Asking for help is a sign of strength not weakness. It was the best thing I could have done and helped me overcome the mental fallout of injury, regain my confidence and stop the emotional rollercoaster.
If you are struggling with an injury, don’t be scared to show vulnerability and ask for help. Your family and friends love helping you so stop stealing their joy.
If you would like to work with me online coaching is available. Contact me to book a complimentary call.
I also run a free Facebook group for mature female cyclists where I share lots of tips for improving on hills, endurance, speed, power, health, strength and hormones. Here’s the link if you’d like to join:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/agewithoutlimits
Or if you’d like to see more info about the Online Cycling Transformation Program for Mature Females, where we transform your health, performance, enjoyment and longevity on and off the bike, here is that link:
https://go.heidivilesperformance.uk/apply-now
